Great dating advice

Here.

Advice to the infamous rejected e-mail guy.

This answer is so good it makes me wonder if Michael P is Coach Roissy. No-bullshit, uncensored social-skills advice from the cool brother or friend (wingman) you should have or wish you did.

(What Roissy would say to e-mail guy, among other things: Jumbotron test. Girls don’t like big, impassioned speeches. Movies and TV are garbage.)

Word: with online dating you too can parallel date.

BTW here’s e-mail guy’s online-dating profile. Good-looking and rich. No wonder he gets lots of first dates. Now that I see him I wonder if he’s really autistic. He writes like it. Shows the danger of long-distance diagnosis. He may be, or he may just be used to having his way because he’s rich and handsome, or maybe both.

(He looks like a stone alpha but sounds like a beta.)

A few years ago online I met this smoking-hot divorcee six years older than me. Brunette with killer rack. Smart enough, hot pics, accepting flirty IMs, great. Went on an eight-hour first date (spring afternoon and evening in a romantic little town). I could tell she wasn’t very into me but she was in no hurry to leave either and most important wasn’t rebuffing my advances. Even made out a couple of times in the bar later that night. (Rare on first dates but I’ve had it happen more than once.)

She disappeared after the first date. She was back trolling the dating site, and evasive when I called her, once, to find out what was up. Didn’t know game yet but learned enough not to say a lot.

It happens. To normals. Don’t worry about it.

(Game hindsight: I made some aspie beta moves, too clingy, that probably turned her off.)

Another story: I made a similar mistake as e-mail guy in writing (this was before there was e-mail) with my second girlfriend. Live and learn.

P.S. If he weren't a sperg, he wouldn't need a dating service.